* Who says I cannot go out with other guys? *

I'm quite a busy girl. I have a very busy yet contented life. I am occupied with studies and activities and personal. I have a nice family to talk with. I have great cousins to hang out with. I also have different circle of friends to hang out with. I also have quite a number of good guy friends to hang out with.

Today some people's talk sparked me. I know they are joking but anyway, I do think there are people who have such mentality out there in this huge world.
"I already have a girlfriend why must I go out and see other girls.."
And I bumped into CCH today at Alamanda and he saw me and asked : "Hey are you hanging out with the wrong guy ar?" when he saw Imran. *Hey I'm just quoting, I know you are joking :) *

Well it's not that it's wrong but there do are people who have such attitude and mentality. Everyone has their way to love and to live. Just that mine differs. Who says someone who's in a relationship can't go out with people of the opposite gender?

I admit. I like to mix with people and surprisingly I always mix quite well and easily with guys, to the extend my mother once joke : "Guys will all treat you just like a brother/sister and you will have a hardtime finding a boyfriend" or "No guys will want you because you are close to every guys". I don't flirt purposely and I don't think I'm flirting. I know some people always joked and called me "buaya" but well, I can just say that I was being....friendly and sociable, and maybe - talkative. Well, mixing well with guys is not wrong, just like some guys who mix really well with girls too. Fair and square. And yeah I'm close with guys and I treat them very good, but I have more to give to a boyfriend, and even more to give to a husband. So you could see how good I can be. :P *perasanness in me. sorry, it's always there*

Some might think I might not be a good girlfriend because I still go out with guys. But to me it's just a matter of the motives you carry. I like to keep in touch with good old friends, catch up and etc. And sometimes I prefer to do it 1 on 1 or with 2 or 3 most, because in this way we can really talk and listen, that is how you foster a friendship. I feel comfortable talking with them solely as a friend, a friend whom I treasure, a good friend who I like to keep in touch with, that's all. If there's any possibility for a girl who has the intentions to have some backup lifelines by keeping in touch with guys so that there will still be guys ever ready for her after she broke up, I don't think it's right. Some told me I should do so, be realistic and etc. It's not that I'm not being realistic. And just because it is, it doesn't mean it should be (Imitating Mrs Boss from Australia the movie). What's the thing with having back ups in a relationship? That's sheerly unreasonable to me. However there really are people like these and being able to have such intentions might just lead them to falling into more wrong-side-business in a relationship (I'm imitating Nullah from Australia the movie!). Why are they so afraid of having no more other options after breaking up... There surely will be someone for you, no worries. :)

It's the same applied to guys. Who said a guy who has a girlfriend cannot hang out with his girl-friends? Who says he can't peek at other girls while shopping? Yes he can, he can compliment, he can say she looks good, that's it. Fullstop. Period. If he goes more than that to 'she looks and feels so much more better than my girlfriend', then deng him. Any of you girls encounter this you can give me his name, I can help you make a "deng" post. :P

It all comes down to trust and being faithful. It takes a lot of courage and heart to trust a person, and this works both ways, or else it will be tiring for both the one who chose to trust and the one who doesn't. Last but not least, honesty is always the best policy. If things are not right, say it out and deal with it, of course, together. Time might not heal some things in life, truth will. :)

So at the end of the day, who says a taken girl like me cannot hang out with other guys? I know what I am doing. I know how I am feeling. And I know where my heart belongs.
Plus come on, everyone wants to hang out with me how could I be so cruel to reject them! They are all my lovely friends!!!! :P