* Destiny *

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Choose your words, for they become actions.
Understand your actions, for they become habits.
Study your habits, for they will become your character.
Develop your character, for it becomes your DESTINY.

How do you see yourself in 10 years time?

Many people like to ask this question. One of my friends did ask me. My answer...hmmm...10 years time, I will be 33 years old. My answer is simple. I’m married, I have a good husband, a nice family, a cosy place to stay, cute kids, stable interesting job, and have travelled to a few countries already. I’ll be staying in an eco friendly house which is interiorily designed as modern zen style, have a small yard for the kids, or perhaps a dog and a hedgehog as well. Every Sunday will be a family day, going out together, to church, to shopping malls, to lake gardens, wherever. I’ll have a nice kitchen with good kitchen wares, especially an oven and a good blender. I will have invested in land properties. I can shop whenever I like. I can still go out for dates with my husband. We can drop the kids at piano classes or dance classes while we go for a swim or a jog. I am still going for mamak session with my pals and also kepoh sessions with my girl mates.

Well, my cousin, David’s life is what I admire. He and his wife are both doctors, busy people. But they still have time to swim together, take videos of their kids performing on stage, and even going for cycling competition overseas and have a holiday at the same time. How cool is that. That is what I call simple yet extraordinary. They even still play x-box late night, to destress I think.

To make it even simpler, I’ll have a nice family with a great husband and both of us will bring up good kids, plus having my family and friends still with me.

Shocked? Please don't be. I think, that’s what most women want. No matter how high a woman has achieved, they are still - a woman, and having a complete family is what all women want. It’s simple, but it’s never easy to achieve.

Well, that’s the big picture. That’s just 10 years. :) I like living a simple life. 'Simple' has many meanings. Simple doesn't means boring, nor ordinary. 'Extraordinary' has many definitions too, it varies among people. I like living a simple yet extraordinary life.

There’s one thing I really want to do in 10 years time. That is to bring my mom to overseas for holidays, with my brother. :) I can’t do it now, nor can I do it right after I graduate. But in 10 years time, I may be able to do it. :) God, please give me time.

So, how do you see yourself in 10 years time?

* 5 irretrievable treasures in life when you’re in a relationship.*

Feelings. Time. Words. Health. Virginity.
Have you ever wonder, people usually tends to lose 5 precious things in life whenever they ended a relationship? Apart from “feelings” which is much easier to be observed, there are other 4 precious things which cannot be regained when you’ve lost it.

Feelings.

We always thought that feelings is something which can be used forever, given and take endlessly. Even if we’d sacrificed all our feelings on one person and can’t get it back to reuse it, we will still give our 100% sincerity and effort to the next person whom we love. Yes, most people are sincere in every relationship at the point of the moment, even though they might have break up, but they still loved each other before. This is not wrong. But then one day you’ll realized, that when you have more experience in relationship, you’ll start to feel different even if you treat your next love whole-heartedly. You won’t feel touched as easily as how you felt during your first love. It’s like a rubber band, when you’ve pulled it too often, it goes over its maximum stretch point and will never get back to its original state. During your first few loves, a simple rain, a simple movie, a simple bowl of soup, will make you remember it forever. But after having a rich relationship experience, you tend not to feel the same touching and innocent feeling you felt compared to the previous ones when you faced the same situations. See, feelings can be gone and not return.

Time.

No matter who you are with, happy or sad, those days are once gone and will never return. Youth is only once, even if you could do plastic surgery whatsoever to make you look physically younger than your biological age, but your heart can’t deny that you are already getting older. Many people who broke up realized that they have grown older, having lesser enthusiasm or anticipation to do many things. During your first love, you enjoy going even to the zoo together, during your second love, you still enjoy it because of a different company...but later on, you won't even have the simple zest to pass by a zoo. Unless you have kids. That's different.

Words.

Whatever nice promises and praises, or hateful and hurtful anger words…whatever it comes out from your mouth, no matter it’s good or bad, it will all be etched in the other’s heart. They will always remember how you make them feel. Good words, will make others remember your good. Bad words, will make others remember your bad. So, learn how to speak, learn how not to speak without thinking. A simple word can either shoos away anger, or invites chaos.

Health.

Being in a relationship is quite a tedious thing as there are always ups and downs. If a relationship between both is always unstable, sad, sorrowful, and perhaps to the extent of abortion, suicide, murder, depression…it will cut your lifespan to half of it was just because you have a bad tiring relationship.Taking medication or drugs won’t help to retrieve the once good health you had. Do you think it is worth it? So be sure of how you are going to lead each other to a better health state by a better relationship.

Virginity.

Some people used to say: “Who will you have sex with, and how many times you will have sex, has a limit. So if you don’t know how to control, perhaps you might lose the opportunity to have sex next time.” Some even said, “Having sex with the person you love most at the point of that time is all that matters. We live in the present.” I don’t agree much to any of the 2 sayings. I don’t believe that many girls will feel happy after giving their virginity out to a man that she’s not sure whether will he give her a future. Virginity is not something to give away just because you so love that person at that point of time. Well, people might say I’m traditional. But I think it is really important. Virginity is not just dignity nor something to be respected only. Virginity is something to be treasured and saved for until the moment when both of you are declared as husband and wife, and that makes everything more wonderful and meaningful. Sex is a great thing to enjoy and strengthen the relationship between a married couple, but NOT between courting couples. There is always a boundary. And there is always more than just sex in a relationship. I am sure that every time a person has sex and gave away their body and soul, it is definitely irretrievable.

Feelings, time, words, health, virginity! These 5 are irretrievable once you use it. So before giving it away, think twice, or trice. When you use it, use it carefully. It’s very easy to lead a great relationship actually. We just have to know ourselves well, hold on to our principles, use well what we have, loving and sacrificing on the one who is worth you doing it, and enjoy the sincerity and communication between the two of you.

* Sweetest SMS *

This SMS used to be very very simple, no intention whatsoever, plainly just a SMS.
I even deleted it. But I can still remember.
When I remember it, I think it's the sweetest among all he'd sent to me.

It was around year 2006, in the month of October I guessed.

After 2 or 3 SMS regarding NLDS application, he sent a last one:

"Oh by the way, I'm Brandon, from K10."

^^

He doesn't remembers it when I told him, but I do.
You know why?
There's a saying.
"People will not remember what you said, people will not remember what you did, people will only remember how you made them feel."

That time, my feelings were...

"This gao gao buaya fella...!!"

Of course I know he is Brandon or not how could I get his contact. And he stressed...FROM K10.

Ini bukan buaya, ini apa, kan?
:P

That's why I remember!

:)

* People are not really doing what they are supposed to do *

I am thinking.. Why are people are not doing what they are supposed to do.
They have the responsibility to do the actual thing, yet they chose to do other else.
I hate political wave. It's a waste of time, energy, feelings, and environment.
Just see how many newspaper pages are just on political stuffs, chaos.

When will people stop going after status when they already have high status?
When will people stop misusing their authorities?
When will people stop condemning and disgracing others?

Aren't we all one whole body?
Why must the hand pinches the leg itself and make the whole body feels pain?

When will people start working on what is really needed and for the good?
Shouldn't those time and effort be more well spent...

* The Sack of Love *

There's this simple story I remembered.

A mother loves her son so much. So much so that whenever her son goes to school, she will add some stuffs into his sack which he always carry.
First day, she will add food because she scares that he will be hungry.
Second day, she will add water because she scares that he will be thirsty.
Third day, she will add books because she scares that he needs to read more.
Fourth day, she will add toys because she scares that he might be bored.

Out of love, she adds more and more things into his sack.
She loves him so much that she keep on giving him the best of everything.

Little did she know, the sack became heavier and heavier.
It became too heavy for her son to carry.
He started to throw the things away along the road, one by one.
And one day, he cannot stand the heavy sack anymore and he threw it away as well.

When the mother asked, he said, "I had enough, it's too much, I can't stand it."

Do you get the story?
It applies to everyone, to every relationship.
It's a lifelong learning process to understand it sometimes. :)

* Essence of Leadership *

A true leader has the confidence to stand alone.

The courage to make tough decisions.
The compassion to listen to the needs of others.
He ends not set out to be a leader,
but becomes one by the quality of his actions,
and the integrity of his heart.

In the end, leaders are much like eagles.
They don't flock.
You find them one at a time.


To the both of you, whichever path you are heading on..
Be strong. Be courageous. Persevere.
Have faith.
:)

* Breaking the silence *

Little things happen these few days to me.
I know why nowadays I think too much.
Because there was too much of silence!!!
I felt so alive after listening to my korean songs and watching back my korean dramas!!!
Without my speaker functioning in my laptop, I can't listen to songs, I can't watch dramas, I can't watch variety shows, I can't do online homeworks, I can't learn korean online, I can't listen to songs and sing according to the lyrics online... I HAVE SO MUCH THING LESSER TO DO. Hence, so much more time to think. And when you think too much, you go overboard.
That's why, people always say moderation is the best. :P

I think I shall switch laptop with my mom while waiting for Dell.

Okay yay!
I've decided!

1. Continue study
2. At the same time download stuffs.
3. At the same time on YouTube!
4. Continue to do my korean homework
5. Work hard for KPLT!!! Fail also nevermind! :D

HWAITING!!!
BBASYA!

ps: I am loving my mom's BenQ.

난 어제 보다 더 행복해요!
역시 생각하는 시간이 너무 많아서 그렇게요, 그렇지? :)
이제부더 달라것 같아....시작할까?? ^^
열심히할게요!
자기는 하고싶은 것 알면 인생은 더 재미있을 거에요!
줄발!!!:) :) :)

* My old love *

Yeah..Long time no see.
It strikes again when I get to see him again!! >< style="font-size:180%;">Jung Yun Ho!!!
Drop Dead Sexy
Drop Dead Gorgeous
Drop Dead Man!!!
*pengsan*

I have so many to catch up..as in to "See" their faces with "voice"
Big Bang, TVXQ, Suju, Shinhwa, Se7en - the old 5 big fave of mine.

And other ones, Shinee, 2am, 2pm, Epik High, Supernova, Battle, Rain...etc~!

So many...
I want to start downloading variety shows already!!!!!
And I need to get that drama from Hui Ying!!!

* People won't stay long when there are no achievement, or at least the sense of it *

I realized when there's no sense of achievement or contribution, people can't stay long.
Even if they do, it will be a very hard time for them. They can't find a purpose to stay on.
Because they are obliged to do, or to stay, and so emotionally they don't feel happy, they won't.
When they don't feel happy, it affects many things. It affects how you think, how you work and how you perform.

This is what I experienced when I was working.
The first day I had nothing to do. I do simple simple stuffs. I didn't really get to explore more of my abilities or practice it.
It was a little bit boring, I even thought why I wasted my time there.
Yes I get to learn new things, through observing, reading, talking and little things around there.
But what I really want to try, I didn't get to.

However, on another day, when there's opportunity for me to do something more than what I usually do, I felt successful, I felt a sense of achievement. :)
I felt like staying on because I know later I'll bump into more opportunities like these again.
I felt happy.
I felt like learning more so I can do more again when opportunity comes.
I felt looking forward to it.

When things are new, fresh, challenging, people will stay back to have more of it. ;)
When people can really contribute, people will stay back because they like the sense of contribution and achievement. Who doesn't?

Hwaiting!!!!

懂得付出，才会有幸福

当你爱上一个人，若不付出，或付出太少，
彼此感受不到对方的心意，无从展现最好自己，非常可惜；

然而，付出超出自己所能负荷，也很容易觉得疲累，
如果对方视为理所当然，没有即时回馈，更是令人心力交碎。

* What I learned in another working day*

Today was another working day. But it's more interesting because I get to practice stuffs and learned new stuffs.

1. Sense of achievement
You can share more when you tried before. Today I mopped the floor with external enzyme detergent. I felt different and decided to read more about it where we have the brochures in our office. So happen in the afternoon a customer asked how to prepare external enzyme. Esther the nutritionist was busy so I needed to explain. First reaction was "Phew~Fortunately I know about it". So then I told her about it. It's nice when you can add extra knowledge too. I felt so happy because I was given a chance to practise and apply what I learned about preparing it. That sense of achievement made me want to stay on and learn more. :)

External enzyme is mainly used for washing surroundings, mopping the floor, or sometimes added into detergent, shampoo etc. It's cheap because you made it yourself, and it's eco-friendly.

2. I speak cantonese
Most people think I don't know how to speak. Actually, I do speak cantonese in my hostel sometimes with my hostel mates, especially with Sze, to practise. I am not a total non-speaker of that dialect. Of course, I am not a pro as well. Today, I picked up a call from this uncle and he speak cantonese. Instead of me asking him whether he can speak chinese or not, I spoke to him in cantonese as well. Not bad la.

3. My brain is synchronised both sides
Today I get to do a brainwave check. Found out that both sides are nearly the same. So I am not a significant left brainer, nor a right brainer. They say your brain functions best when it is equally synchronised. When I closed my eyes, my brain wave were still quite active and Esther asked am I thinking a lot, having different emotions these days. Indeed, I am. No wonder, the lie detector test is always scary.

Anyway, I kind of learned how to read the waves a bit. Shall learn more next time. :) Thanks Ning!

They can actually test whether you are happy, or sad or whatever. There are different numbers indicating different fields of emotions. If guys tend to think something which will makes them happy (you know i know), the wavelength on number 14 will be very active.

4. The BOSS.
BOSS is an equipment or a machine used to help people to syncrhonised their brain wave, help them release stress and tension, and sleep better. It's actually a bed which can rotate 360 degrees. Not up to down, but clock wise or anticlockwise. Today I learned how to control that machine, and practised with Madam Chin who acted as the patient. So funny. I learned how to fold the blanket of certain directions which have their own reasons. Music will be played and sometimes essential oil will be put on too. Very relaxing indeed. Usually people who undergo this will have better brain wave.

5. Cauliflower
Cauliflower actually will lower down thyroxin if you eat too much, like everyday every meal. Or for certain people whose thyroid glands are more sensitive.

6. Guava tea leaves
Today I needed to translate a testimonial of a diabetic patient. From that I learned more about Guava tea leaves. It's much more better than normal green tea leaves we always know, because of its ingredients in it. This patient had her blood glucose reading dropped from 15 - 12 - 9 and lastly to 7 which is nearly the normal borderline. How great is that. This guava tea leaves mainly helps in Diabetes, Hypertension and Uric Acid. So, I bought one for my mom as well. ^^

The testimonial was in chinese and I needed to photostate and laminate it. I know how to operate a photostate machine finally! Then I went to the opposite shop to have it laminate and pasted it around ground floor and first floor.

7. Japanese
Today there're 2 japanese who came. Sparked up the day a bit! :)

8. Phone calls
There're more and more phone calls I'm handling and I'm happy. At times I get to provide them information, at times I just jot down their details so that I can refer them to the nutritionist, she's far more better than I am.

9. Books
One thing good about working there is I have free access to health books. Today I read about liver and gallblader. Then it mentioned again why we have to sleep early. We have to because our liver and gallbladder starts working at 11pm.
11 pm - 1am : Gall bladder starts working
1am - 3am: Liver starts to work, to detox, to rebuild, to regenerate etc

Before 11 we have to sleep because:
Sleeping actually increases the moving blood volume by 40% compared to standing, and 80 - 85% compared to standing activities..meaning activities you do when you are walking, or standing, or similar to that. That's why, we HAVE TO SLEEP early.

If we don't, the detox system in our liver will deteriorate.
The liver will have lesser oxygen.
More toxins will remain and it will attack the cells.

If there's a long period of stress, fatigue, lack of sleep..the liver cells will have a hard time to recover and regenerate.

Hence, your immune system goes down.

Oh yeah, the liver is a silent organ. There is no nerve. You won't feel pain when it's turning bad. The side effects will be shown at other organs, like the skin, head, kidneys etc..which you THOUGHT that that organ has problem..but NO. It originates from your liver.

So, heart your liver, sleep early.

10. Nasty customer
Well of course once a while you encounter some picky customer. Those who goes like, "Wah here 1 dollar extra, I think I go over that other shop to buy even better lah~"
Whatever...we still have our own customers. :P

11. Charcoals
I learned a lot about charcoals today. Marvellous thing. Even better when you get to see all the products in front of you.
I even saw charcoal dress which helps you to slim down!
I want to buy that!!! I think it surely cost a lot... >< 12. Paul Penders
A product name. Eco friendly, non-animal-tested, organic product.
One of its factory or research center is at Langkawi.
Originates from Holland and then shifted to US.
I get to know which product to treat which type of skin, why, and when.
But I think I kinda forget some names..I need to remember that again next week.
Anyone who needs a FREE SKIN CHECK UP, please come to RPA holistic center at SS2, any 2nd or 4th Friday!


I don't remember the minor ones..but I learn new stuffs every Friday.
The people there are always very generous.
You use 1 minute to ask them a question, they use 15-20 minutes to explain to you, they just like giving you the knowledge so much. :)
They really want you to learn.

^^

I found out something today as well, having the sense of achievement will make people stay. Be it in an organisation, a society, a student body, or a company.
Why so?
When people felt that they achieve something, they get to learn something, they will surely stay on to discover more!!!
When they have nothing to do, nothing much to improve, nothing new to be exposed with...they find it bored and can't wait to leave!!!

^^

* My evening - Nostalgic - Relax - Surprising!!!! *

Today Sze dropped me and my mom's school, or can also say that it's my primary school.
While waiting for mom, I looked around.
The compound, the parents, the kids.

It's a really nice feeling sitting there and just watching them.
Kids just have so many different expressions.

I believe they are going to be beautiful girls and handsome boys when they enter high school .

We used to carry those super heavy bag which is almost double the size of our own.
And when they grow up, they'll go for smaller trendy bags.

Looking back at my primary school was very nostalgic.
I did many nice stuffs there.
I sneaked up to the top of the school with a bunch of friends.
I raised the state flag and it reached the top even before the song was finish, then I had to scroll it down to halfway again and then raise it again. How stupid!
I scolded a teacher before.
I was being scolded before as well.
I was 3 times the prefect, 1 time assistant head prefect.
I was an active choral speaker.
I was a girl guide.
I took part and won many story telling and speech competitions.
I was 3 times the champion of singing competition as well.
I scored 7As.

Wow, somehow I was really great during my primary school days, huh?

Now going back there is like my 2nd home.
Whereever I go I said "hi" to this teacher, to that teacher, to the pak guard, to the headmaster.

Hence, Nostalgic.

Then when I came home, I went to my room.

I love my room!
After bathing, I decided to play with manicure!

Not too bad.
It was a nice, slow night.
Enjoying my time alone.
Forgetting about everything and everyone behind.
With music at the background, I felt so relax.
Stress, sorrows, confusion, all thrown behind.
It's me in my own world, savouring my own happiness.
I think this is what you call - Simple is happiness.

Suddenly..there's a call.
One name I haven't see for such a long time...after 2 years!
Nicholas Ng Tin Ming!!!!!

So nice of him to call me while waiting his shift during movie shooting.
Talk and talk and talk.
I felt so nostalgic again.
He's my senior when I'm at form 6.
Short talks made me think of so many things..
..and brought a smile to my face.
I remembered..so many funny stuffs.
Funny, and sweet.
Then he had to off when he needs to shoot.
I want to shoot part time too!!!! ><
I know why they ask him to shoot.
He's tall, fair, handsome and cool!
That's what people always seek for actors,kan?
Sing K session will be coming soon, yay can't wait!!!
It's been such a long time.

Anyway, it was a nice late evening.
^^

I've been browsing photos...and it's so nostalgic again~
GARGHHH...

:(

I wasn't hardworking enough.
I didn't put more effort into it.

So, I should not :(.
Because I got myself into it.

I looked out the window.
The sun is shining.
The wind is blowing.

:]
Work hard for the next one.

* Happy Birthday *

^^

Because of you, I know better...

...about <3.

* Best dream ever *

It's the best dream I ever had this morning, or mid night?
I can still remember some details. :) It was so wonderful!

I dreamt of a piece of land, with a stretch of walkway in the air towards an island in the air. The walk way is those nice ones you see in rich man's gardens, filled with pebbles and rocks, and bushes of flowers side by side...
It's all floating in the air. A scene which will never exist in real life. I think I had too much of Final Fantasy. I think I came across such illustration before at Deviantart.com, or something similar. :)

And then I walked through the hanging path to that 'hanging in the air island'. It's very nice and pretty cosy, with a nice cute cottage as the only building. Others are all different trees and flowers. Wow. I don't know how to describe!!!

I settled down. And I remembered Siew Wei and Sze Wen ran towards the so called mainland again, shouting that they are going to look out for camp sites. *huh?*

I remembered I saw a rainbow. A SPIRAL RAINBOW!!! It's soooooooo marvellous. I still feel very happy now whenever I remember that happy feel. I remembered I ask someone to borrow me a camera so that I can capture it down!

I remembered suddenly there's a stream of cool chill water and I can feel the chill! The revitalising feel! :)

And I remembered something very funny. I remembered I took out my handphone and saw there were 12 messages. Yes, I remembered it was 12. And most of them were from Kaiser asking questions about something. I can only remember one question and I can only remember that I replied: "Buy her books now, especially science fictions ones."

What a dream!

But it's the best dream ever...I hope I can dream of me going back to that magical place...and get to look at the spiral rainbow again.

It is really a nice dream. A dream which will never come true, unless in my dreams. :)

I love dreams like that. I love going to places with a vast green piece of land, with that clear blue skies above my head, with fluffy white clouds running across the sky or plain sirus clouds lying over it....I know there are such places in reality. I just need to get there. It certainly will not be as great and perfect in my dreams...but it will still be good enough to see it while I'm still living.

* Unanswered Questions *

I like asking questions.
But having questions unanswered isn't really nice.
Especially when you really need those answers.

When people don't answer my questions.
I will start thinking why.
And it isn't nice to always have to think why.

I like having little random plans.
But sometimes others might think that it's a waste of time or not worth it.
As long as you are happy doing it, little things like that won't go to waste.
It's that great feeling of doing it that exact moment which matters.
But it's not easy to find people who thinks like this.
People might think it's irrational. But what does life means to you when everything goes too rational.
Come on, let's be crazy some times.
At least, I'm happy that I have great friends who are willing to do it with me.

I like having little demands from people.
If they can't give me what I want which is so simple...
how could they give me what I want when I demand high.
Or perhaps when you demand high, people thinks that it is important, that's why they will do it.
Just like Neil said, when the price is higher, people will tend to think that it is very valuable and they will buy it.
Simple things might seem nothing that's why people tends to neglect it.
But it's those simple things which really matters.
It's just like when you eat cheesey wedges, it's not only about the wedges, the cheese, the mayonnaise.
It's also about how you fry it, and the heart of the person frying it.
If you're happy frying the wedges, the people will be happy eating it as well.
Kan, Immy?

* Valentine's 2009 *

Friends been asking me how I celebrated it.
Especially girls!
Okay I finally got the pictures and let me post them up! :)

Celebrating Valentine's again after 4 years.
Totally different feeling! :)

In the morning, I got a bouquet of red roses!!!

Then at night, I got another dozen of pink roses!!!!

So happy!!! Kan?
You must be thinking that he's so rich to buy 2 dozens of roses..which might cost RM 300++ in total.

Nope, I was just joking. He didn't gave any roses at all. :)
Those were roses he gave before.
I have so many roses! I don't need on Valentine's day plus it's so pricey! :)
Let's use the $ on better stuffs.

So, indeed, he gave me something very PRACTICAL!!!
An english-korean dictionary! YAY!!!
It was one of my wish list.
Although I had 2 dicitonaries already, his one will still be of very good use!

We started off early in the morning... Driving, driving all the way to Kepong.To celebrate the day at Forest Research Institute Malaysia!!

It's a really nice place if you love nature and a little bit of adventure. :)
It's cheap and almost free!

Took a lot of pictures starting from the start point to the end.
We were conned by an uncle.
He said we can buy the tickets to the canopy walk at the top.
So after walking for 20 minutes, we realised we have to buy it at the souvenir shop!
All right, let's do more exercise!
We walked down within 15 minutes and bought the ticket!

A surprise gift!
1 canopy walk entrace is RM 5.
Bran gave RM 50 and later we only found out that that guy gave us back 5 RM10 notes!
So, we went in for free!!! :)


The second time at the entrance, we saw a man selling ice cream!
Everything oh so happens for a reason, kan?
If we weren't kena conned, we won't get to walk down again and then ate sweet ice cream!
Which made the day sweeter!This was before we take another 500 m walk up to the canopy walk entrance.

RM 5 - Adult.
But for us, it was a blessing.
We got free tickets! :P

The canopy walk was 30m long.
Quite relaxing and a nice place to take pictures if you want.
I love looking at the trees.

After snapping loads of pictures we went down to the waterfall.

I think this is my best shot of the day. :P

The waterfall is cooling! I love the water it's so relaxing!
A comfortable place to think or just to let your mind stray with the wind.
Below your feet is crystal clear water and above your head is a nice view of the sunrays piercing through the leaves.
Magnificent!

We brought sandwhiches to eat. :)
Bran was busy taking pictures, I was taking my time marvelling at mother nature.
Later on we had a nice foot massage.
Something interesting happened, after wiping our legs all so dry out..
...and wearing our socks and shoes..
he pula accidentally stepped into the water and got both of his legs wet.
:)

We then took another 30 minutes walk down to the car.
It was late noon that time.
Drove home. Wash up. Rest. Prepared for dinner.
FRIM is a great place for photography.
Bran snapped a lot of great pictures!!!

We went to Kissaten at Jaya One! :)

Me and the cold salted pork belly.
It was nice! Cold and salted, and a bit of pepper with it.
The meat is soft and its texture is just nice to the teeth. ;P

My honey ginger beer!
Since people recommended it so I called it.
It tasted good! Something I've never drink before.
It's beer but it's not alcoholic though. :)

My olio pasta.

His salmon pasta.

And we ordered a cheese cake.
Food was average but I love the cold salted pork belly!
We had a great time talking. ^^
The total bill was rather affordable.

A shot outside of Jaya One.

Then we went back home, and take more pictures at home! :P

And ended the night with a short slow dance! Hahaha!

More pictures will be uploaded at my Facebook later on.

That's it, my 2009 Valentine's.

Fun. Sweet. Budget. Lovely.

Something different. ;)
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It was nice for him to wake up so early and drive down despite that he never slept that early.

FRIM is really a nice place and there's lots of things to do, if you like such places.
My dear was as good as ever. ;) Thank you so much for everything. We planned to do something even more different next Valentine's again! :D

It'll be an interesting journey. There will be flaws and of course there will be improvement. I'm glad to have him with me along. I'm always happy for the understanding and concern, care and love.
I appreciate it when he always came unnoticed to give me surprises during exam periods to boost me up.
I appreciate it when he brought me cheesey wedges without me expecting at all.
I appreciate little little gifts made intricately.
I appreciate it when he gives me roses at anytime he wants to, sometimes plucking off flower from the roadside.
I appreciate it when I see him waiting for me when I walked out of the LRT or the KTM.
I appreciate it when he takes time off for me.
I appreciate it when he knows I needed a massage.
I appreciate it when he knows when he's always concerned with how I feel.
I appreciate every little thing he done and we've done together.
I appreciate everything he gave and have done for me.
I appreciate everything we have together, we've done together, and every moment together.

I treasure the night when he brought me to 'Beauty and the Beast'.
I treasure the magical moment when we started. The stars were beautiful. The lake was soothing. The surrounding was so peaceful.
I treasure the crazy moment when he drove me down to PD beach for sunset.
I treasure the fun moment when we cooked together and he always likes to add stuffs to the recipe.
I treasure the comfy moment when we sat together and watch television or read books.
I treasure the nice moment when we can open up and talk.
I treasure the quiet moment when we just hold hands and walk.
I treasure the very moment when we both always look forward together.
I treasure him very much. :)

* URBAN DANCE FESTIVAL 2009!!! *

URBAN DANCE FESTIVAL 2009 is the event you all have been waiting for!! You always wanted to see ASTRO Battleground 2009 Champions and Finalist performed? You wonder who are these people who went to Japan, Australia and Singapore for street dance competitions? Wanted to get to know them and shake their hands? Take picture with your favourite dance crews. See them live now at Urban Dance Festival 2009.

For the 1st time in Malaysia, all the best dance crews in Malaysia will gather at Cineleisure Damansara. Elecoldxhot(ECX), Twister Genies, DT4 and RhytMusic(Fei) are confirmed dance crews participating in this event. Bring your friends to this festival whether they know about dance or not. There will be FREE workshops, public showcase performances and competition. Come and join us at the main lobby of Cineleisure Damansara near The Curve and IKEA. Everyone is invited!!

Click here for more info~!

* Just for One Day *

Today I listened to "Just for One Day" by The Grace featuring Kyu Hyun. It's quite an old song but I still love it so much. I think I just can't get enough of Korean songs. It's so good and the singers are great. And I sort of know why. Koreans learn alot from the US. No wonder. I am really getting bored with some chinese songs.

Anyway, back to the topic. I listened to this song after watching a random movie from KBS.

If the one you love ask you to stay with her/him to do what she/he wants Just for Today, will you stay?

What if you have work, or other things, will you stay?

What if......you knew that she will be dead in an accident hours later, will you stay?

But it is impossible for us to know what will ever happen in the next second.
Life is just too hard to predict.

* Happy Valentine's *

My Facebook daily scripture quoted this today:
"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres"

That is one of my top favourite scripture. ^^

Happy Valentine's all. ^^

Last Valentine, I celebrated it with a bunch of close friends. Harish was the photographer.

:)

I was browsing old pictures. Noticed some stuffs.
Concluded with a friend:
"How much things can change in a year..."

Love notes to dedicate:

To my mom:
You're always my inspiration. You taught me the value of perseverance. If you didn't stay tough and hold on, if you didn't persevered through all the tough times, we won't be having a cosy life now. Thank you so much and I love you. At times I have my temper, it went off, but I want you to know that whatever I do I always thought of you. I am improving much better nowadays anyway, kan? Haha!^^

To my bro:
You're my role model. Friends didn't believe it when I said you are just because you are younger than me 4 years. You're my role model in showing me to do more, learn more, and achieve more. I wouldn't achieve as much as you do if I'm at your age. Thanks for inspiring me although you were so much more younger. I love all the times we have together. My sibling is the best part of me ever!

To my dad:
Thanks and please stay well, whereever you are. I appreciate your encouragement and support all these while! You are still respectable to me. Happy Valentine's!

To my darling:
Too much words to say. I'll reserve a post specially for you. I love you!

To my cousins:
You guys are the bombs~! Especially Ming, Hang and Jo Dear, I love all of you dearly! Thanks for always being there for me...You are just my family, my brothers and sisters. And I am forever glad to have you! And more of my other cousins, Alan, Alex, Alvin, Andy, Jessey, Jackie, Adam, Amelia, Jason..etc etc etc...thank you for being great!

To Ah-Sa, Ning, Jason, Ah He:
Thanks so much for still being the old friends whom I can always trust, rely, and just call up to talk about anything. I don't know how to describe...You all are just too good to be true to be there for me. Hugs!!!!

To Sze, Siew Wei, Pey Pey, Fang Yee:
Uni life has never been so awesome with you girls around. I'm glad that we play, we work, we do things together! Let's cheer for friendship and may it last forever. Can't wait for Cambodia! I love the days we were at Sabah. It was totally a world of just the 5 of us! So now....let's continue to do more assignments. :P Considering we're in a same group again for another subject! Love you girls! Thanks so much for everything!!!

To lovely aiesec pals (or let's just make it great friends!):
Kaiser, Harish, Huiying, Imran, Skit, Edwin, Saha, Hazwan, Cheryl, Fido, Michael...so many more..you know who you are. You people added so much more fun and great moments. I love the times being with all of you! I hope we will always keep in touch and attend everyone's wedding in the future! :P Let's continue to play and have fun during our remaining uni years..I will miss you all SO MUCH. Thanks for being my lovely friend, I appreciate you a lot! :) I really treasure our friendship!

To my housemates:
Yei Sang, Yi Pei, Ling Hui, Shirley, Pei Wen, Sze Wen, Siew Wei. Staying with you 7 girls is one of the best plan God has ever made for me. I like it when we can share things, thoughts and help one another whenever one is down. Thanks for being there! :)

To my dance mates:
Melissa, Sora, Shermin, Wayne... I miss you all. No matter where we are and what we are doing individually, I hope all of us still stay happy and healthy and will always get to catch up once in a while. Muaks!!! I miss the times staying over night to practise, or rushing here and there to practise. You girls definitely made my life more interesting and different. Thank you so much!!!

To my IK mates:
Liannie, Mic, Thean Seng, Joshua..Thanks for being with me still. I appreicate all your prayers and concerns for me!! Thank you so much!!

To everyone:
I may not be able to quote everyone...but I just want to take the opportunity to say that "I Love You", for being my friend. Thank so much. Whoever it is...I might miss out names..Gary, Megat, David Lee, CCH..so much more. Thank you and love ya!!!

Last but not least, to everyone:

GOD BLESS!

* A surprise *

Today lwl or I prefer to call him Little Lim actually send me a video link....

OF WONDERGIRLS!!!!!!

Nice video, nice song. Please hear it.


First time in my uni life, 3 years down the road, the first guy to ask me see a video link of Wondergirls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes!

Talking about the korean wave~ HALYU JJANG!!
:P

I miss dancing to their "Nobody"

* The journey *

The journey has begun...

It will be a long journeyWithout knowing what the future lies for everyone

There will surely be storms and thunders

It will never be smooth and easy always

But it is always beautiful and meaningful when the storm is over

Whether will it reach its destination or not..
There is no answer, yet.

We will never know, yet.

The ship is sailing through.

The crew has to be strong.

The ship will still cap side even if it's of good quality, if the crew is not strong to control it.

I will be strong. I will be brave.

No matter how tough it is.

And when I am weary, I might fall.

If I fall, I hope you will catch me.

* Love is.. *

..when you will still eat what he/she buys for you eventhough you felt so full just after having your lunch.

..when you will still wish that he/she will achieve what they want even though you know that there's a possibility that they might leave you if they succeed.

..when you choose to believe that they will not leave.

..when you know it is more than just passion and chemistry.

..when you know it is more of mutual understanding, trust, responsibility and commitment.

......a lot more than just the 4 letter words - L.O.V.E.

Happy preparing for Valentine's Day pals! ^^

* I am not very ambitious, but I have my dreams too *

People perceived me as someone who always want to achieve great heights, someone who is good and experienced, someone who has big ambition and will be someone great later.

No, no, wrong.

I am not that ambitious to the extend of thinking to become a superb MNC leader, a prominent model, a very noble charity giver, the best tv program anchor, a great surgeon, or the most famous blogger either.

But, I still have my own dreams in life. Things I want to do and I want to have. People might think my dreams are small compared to theirs. But as long as I achieve my own dreams, what is there to compare?

"我不好也不坏，不那么出众，只是敢不同!"

(I'm not good nor bad, not special, but just daring to be different)

Mayday - 咸鱼

Let me be simple yet extraordinary.
;)

* Little incidents teach you big stuffs *

I am a person who loves to observe things around me when I'm alone. And I will always get something out of those little little things. Be it just a small plant growing out from the broken cleft of the wall.

Tonight was just a normal journey with my roommate but stuffs happen and I then again saw 3 things along the way. It's not that I didn't know it before. But it's always awesome when life lessons can sometimes be learned in very very simple stuffs (example:while eating or bathing), if you choose to live a bit slower and think.

Look at the clouds, the water, the trees, the cars, the people, or any little thing which happens to you.

3 things I can say after the journey:

1. After endless tries to search for what you want and you can't get it, open up and find another. You will never know what life can give you. As the saying goes, "When one door of opportunity closes, another opens." Sometimes, you can even find something which is better than you've expected compared to the one you were previously searching for tediously.

2. Continuing from the quote, "...But sometimes we often look too long at the opened door and it closes again." That's why, grab the opportunity if it is presented to you. Of course we have to know to grab the ones which are related to what we want. So today, something happen again and I thought of this. Don't wait. If you know it's the one, grab it.

3. But, sometimes after grabbing the opportunity and went for it, we tend to self-doubt later on. We are afraid that there might be better opportunities out there, or we might actually made the wrong decision due to sudden decisions. Sometimes, there's no turning back. At times like this, have faith and believe that we will do well. We have got the opportunity, it is in our hands, look no further and just make full good use of it. :) We'll never know. ^^

These are 3 things I interpreted today while shopping.

* 我們的愛 *

我們的愛
< 大喜事>主題曲
陳孟奇.姚惠敏


手交给你，一生交給你
在你眼里看見我自己
直到白頭，誰都不會離棄
永恒看得見幸福在心底
牽你手心，相伴一世纪
我會永遠承諾保護你
直到我们連皺紋都老去
也會讓你開心不哭泣

我們的爱，沒有四季
每一分鐘都25℃
我們的爱，今生不渝
天涯海角也都會有痕跡
我們的爱，心有默契
不管是誰會先停止呼吸
Ave Maria

讓我看仔細，永遠不要忘记
所有好心情，壞脾氣，苦與樂
都珍惜

너를 사랑해요 영원히
우리 서로 지켜야해
네 옆에 있어 고마워
^^

* I feel *

Now I finally know how it feels like.
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Let me not think more.
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And start studying
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Sleep after half hour.
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I wish
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I can go somewhere nature
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I wish
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There's someone who will suddenly bring me
to a place in touched with nature
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I wish
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It will be a surprise like last time..the fireflies!
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I wish
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That it will just be a little bit different

* Time can change people indeed *

My lappie has some problems. I can't online the whole Sunday. :( Sometimes I can, at times I can't.

Anyway, the first time I slept so early at night...and to my dismay I actually woke up - now is 2.24am.

My 3rd time attending VOC, 2nd time for LC's. It's nice to sit in there just listening to people answering questions, and getting to know them more through what they say. It's like stalking some people's heart. :P

Surprisingly, I did something which I swore I will never do during last VOC. Time can change things indeed. I am happy for that!

Congratulations for those selected. For those who are not, stay on and hold on to what you want. ;)

* I miss you *

It was late night.
A nice short talk with David from US.
Come back here before you work there again so we can have a long chat!

A great sudden hangout night with someone as crazy as me from UM.
I think we were both just too fed up with studies.
Come, stop laughing at me and let's do more crazy stuff together.

Early morning.
A holiday.
And I miss you.

Is it good to miss many people at the same time?

* Part Time Jobs? *

Hey people~ :)
Too busy with assignments can't have time to online to look out for extra earnings?
Lazy to go search around for Part Time Jobs?
Tiring to walk around 1 Utama to look out for notices?

Well there's this great place I know, they actually just send email to you and call you up if you applied for it! ^^

www.yourparttime.com

It's like Jobstreet but there are 2 different things:
1. It's for those part time job lookers like us tertiary students!
2. The boss is a macho 22 year old guy! Keke.

www.yourparttime.com

See, they already promised you with their company name - Your Part Time.

www.yourparttime.com

Click on~ It's free anyway~ NO harm, right? :)

Or you can click on my banner above!

Happy searching! :)

* To survive .. *

In life, we must know when and what to let go

and when and what to keep.

* For guys who are in love, heart broken, or in between"

A very nice song I heard from LITE.

"You got to know when to hold her
Know when to follow her
Know when to walk away
Know when to run
You never count your money
When you’re sitting at the table
There’ll be time enough for counting
When the deal is done"

Kaiser's add on:
If you wait too long... They won't take your bet...
If you bet in a hurry without observing... U may lose...
If you don't bet... You will never stand a chance to win
Sometimes... Your luck is not with this table... Take your chip and try your luck elsewhere...

* Feelings *

#1 Pressured

I am already feeling it even before May.
Why, oh why? Because of the line below:

"Just want to alert you, it would not be easy, expectation is high."

I seldom feel pressured. Or perhaps I don't really know how pressure felt like.
I only know when I read that line, I started to feel anxious, excited, happy, curious, and wondering how far I can go and how much I can give. Yet I always believe that pressure will boost performance if the person knows how to deal with it correctly, turning problems into challenges with a correct mindset and perspective.

The next line made me overjoyed though:

"But the experience you gain will be tremendous!"

I know I will definitely make a lot of mistakes, surely meet different roadblocks, failures etc... If I overcome those, I will surely gain a lot. Persevere!

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#2 Confused

Sometimes it's the situation which makes you confused.
Sometimes it's the people around you which makes you confused.
Sometimes it's everything which happens so coincidently which makes you confused.
Sometimes it's those who you hold dearly to your heart who makes you confused.
Sometimes it's you yourself who makes you confused.

You see, when some times you can't convince yourself, you ended up confusing yourself.

#3 Tired

I've started my first work day at Green Meadow.
First time surrounded by so many products.
First time learning so many new things on health in a day.
First time being compliment by boss!
Esther is a really great nutritionist, I'm amazed by how she explains things.

It's nice working in various areas which you are curious of.
It helps you to make a decision after getting in touch with it personally.
Today, I made cleared one thing about myself again. :)

And I'm tired.

#4 Missing you

I miss you so much.
Especially at times now when I needed someone to talk to. It's been a long time I've never talk such stuffs to you. And I can't believe that I actually T_T.
You just flew off yesterday and how I wished you left 2 days later so I can just call you up.
Belle misses Jane!

* Expectations *

Doing something with all your heart, and without any expectations of returns, will be very rewarding later on.

Rewarding as in:
1. You feel pure joy and happiness after accomplishing it. You will smile automatically.

2. If there is really any rewards from other people, it will be very surprising and valuable to you.

Sometimes, people tends to fall into disappointments because they expect too much of other people, of situations, of things, of fate etc.

When you don't expect, and nothing happens, everything will still seem fine. When you expect something good to happen and it happened, you will feel very happy because it is what you expected! But when something great happens to you and you never expected it to be that good, you'll feel AWESOMELY HAPPIER THAN EVER~ :) Sheer happiness!

Too much expectations in relationships will hurt people in the end. Be it kinship, courtship, or friendship. Sometimes, it will even hurt yourself. If you really want someone to treat you the way you want so badly, then just tell them. Sometimes, they won't know. :) If they can't be how you want them to be, remember that if we can't change people, we change ourselves. But of course, make changes which will not harm yourself or the other.
"Treat every person sincerely. Love truly. Do it whole-heartedly. You will find pure happiness in even the simplest things in life." - Rue

But sometimes it's quite confusing as well :
Sometimes, is it because people don't want to expect because they don't dare to? because they are afraid of disappointment?

* I miss you!!! *

It was a nice gathering session again. One farewell, 3 birthdays. Again, at FullHouse. -.-

SOFT SHELL CRAB IS SO NICE!!!
And so I think I've almost tasted all nice stuffs at FullHouse.

Sometimes some friends will always be the same old true friends. You changed to a more matured person, a better person, different life, different institutions...but all of you still remain the same when it's back to the same ALL OF YOU. The same attitude we had since we first met.

I have a lot of different gangs from high school and outside. Some which can't talk much when we meet up again, not many topics can click with although we were once very great pals. However, there is always some who can talk to you just as old times - non stop - like the one I met up with tonight.

I miss all the interesting impromptu lines we can all just came up with just now. I love those genuine laughter, crazy jokes, sharing moments and most of all, the heart and love of friendship. I remembered we laugh til drop and tears oozed out as well due to overlaughing. There are lines of "You're still the old you". It's not that we didn't change at all, but it's the same ol friend we used to know, is still the same great friend now. It's like you'll know they will always be there for you when you needed them most, no matter how long you've never met or talk.

We don't meet up much. But once we meet up, it's always an awesome moment. It took so long to say goodbye today. :)

Ah Sa, Ning, Joseph, Jason - I miss you!!!

Why not read Ning's 10 things you will do in FullHouse.

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I read a story today.
I just heard about something just now.
And how both relate so much to one quote I just came across: "Never expect love to last nor to be lost."

But then, same line - Easy said, hard to be done.

* Some things guys won't understand *

It's not just the big big wuha things you do for a girl.
It's not just making her having a great day when she's out with you.
It's not just the love notes you send to her.
It's not just how nice you treat her when she's with you.

It's some times what she saw or knew or heard what you did, when she's not with you.
And those are little little stuffs which a guy didn't know a girl really do care.

Valentine's Day is approaching.
Guys, what's the use of having a superb V-day celebration if you sometimes hurt the girl you like by your little mistakes without you knowing at all.

-a thought after hearing a story-

* Thoughts at a moment of resting -BOOKS BOOKS BOOKS! *

My brain is getting saturated after studying. Then so I relaxed and was thinking of those books I wanna buy and read!!!!

I want to read "Honor Thyself" by Danielle Steel!
I want to read "The Gift" by Cecelia Ahern!
I want to read "Change of Heart" by Jodi Picoult!

I like reading non-fictions and fictions. But I prefer reading fictions when I am not busy. Especially those really thick ones. Because I indulge myself in the story and I don't like the feeling of being interrupted, and then have to leave my story for quite a long time...Not nice. :P

I'm not a very mainstream person. I don't have a specific writer which I will only read her/his books. As long as it's a good book, I'll read. And some good books are really hard to find. They don't top the charts. They aren't really famous. But they are still good.

I really like Denyse Devlin's "Hopscotch"!
The title is already very attractive and I still don't understand why it's called "Hopscotch" at the start. The intro is already so exciting making the reader curious and it's seriously a non-stop-page-turning read. I think it's also because I like the story itself. It brings me to so many parts of the world! To Croatia, Prague, Budapest, Stockholm, Queensland, etc! Of love, of friendship, of family, of backpacking and of surprises and what a great story it is~ And at the end I finally know why is it titled as "Hopscotch" while I read the whole book. You have to read the whole book to get the picture of its title. And I like it when the cover says: "Sometime the only way to find yourself is to get lost..." :)

"Don't judge a book by it's Cover"

But somehow I really am attracted to the cover! 1st impression ma! :)
I love Cecelia Ahern's books design!!!
I dislike Danielle Steel's cover font!!!
I like "The Last Lecture" cover! I don't know how to describe my feeling towards that cover!

It's a nice inspiring read.
You can even watch that lecture online.
A true story. :)

I like John C. Maxwell's professional cover, I super love his "The Maxwell Daily Reader" design! Probably it's because the inner design is quite similar to "Daily Bread" design. Short short passages are easy and quick to read, so nice. The bulky bulky feel also makes people feel comfortable. People like me. :P
I never read Stephenie Meyer's books before, but am always attracted to her book covers style.
Search for her "Twilight" and "Eclipse", you'll know what I am talking about.

I think I am really attracted to books which are nicely decorated at the cover, with fonts not too small and crampy. That's why sometimes I can't stand John Grisham's.
But still, content and interest is top priority.

I like motivational and self-enrichment books as well.
I think they are really a nice read.
I love all the stories and examples and the way they write it down, share and impact.
I like it when I learn to see from different POV through them.

I am not much of a business mind nor an ambitious entrepreneur, but I still like to read books on that. Especially when the author writes them in layman's terms, it makes me enjoy it better. It's always nice to read about successful people's life. It's part of our learning process. When you get to see what they did, you know more and look at the world differently. And it's always nice reading about other things just for extra knowledge. I got Richard Branson's "Business Stripped Bare" for him and I want to borrow it back. :P But he told me to read "Screw it, Let's do it!" first. But I don't want!!! Because you know why? This book attracts me a lot for it's cover with Branson's sunshine smile~! Haha. And the back of the paperback cover with those scribbles...The art of writing your thoughts down. And somehow when I flipped through I prefer it. So I don't care. I am waiting for this book.

Sky.
Sea.
Sunshine Smile.
No wonder I like it.

I just bought Mitch Albom's book again since it was on a nice discount. :) So while waiting, I shall read my own books..many. I think I can start reading Albom's after exams when I finished my current book!!!

* Perseverance vs Hardwork *

2 of the core elements to succeed in life.
But, perseverance is more important than hardwork, I feel.
A person can be hardworking, but for how long, we don't know.
Can you persevere for a very long time with your hard work?
Or are you hardworking just for that certain period,
your passion dies off and you weren't able to persevere on?

At times people will feel tired.
Doing things which they once started to love and then turning into a kind of burden, a responsibility, an accountability.
But I believe it all can be turnaround if we have the correct mindset and heart.
Our mind really plays a very crucial part in our lives too.
Choose what you want to believe in. Choose to view things in different perspectives.
When you start out with a correct mindset, it automatically helps you to do things better. :)

If there's an option for you to choose, why choose to think negatively when you can always be positive and start off again.

We run. We fall. We get up. We continue the race!!!

Yah...so let me persevere on~:)

* Asking Questions *

Bran and I were talking something about 'asking questions' and I very much agree to what he said. (Oh ya he changed new layout already, so click on his link. I help promo wei...So good)
When we don't know or want to know more, we ask. You will never know what valuable answers or inspiring ones you might get, which will help you in this journey called Life.

I really too think so.
When you can't find an answer for yourself, ask.
The more we ask, the more we learn, and the more we know what we still don't know, and then we ask more - and learn more - and then we are able to contribute more. ^^
"The more you ask, the more you know, the more you know that you don't know, and then the more you ask."- from I forgot whom.
When you get answers from different people, you see things a bit more different.
You get to see new things, and sometimes you also tend to realised new things by yourself.

Thinking more on that, having the curiousity towards things and willing to learn and ask will always help when you meet the right person. If you are too sure of yourself, not willing to ask more, you will sometimes miss out some important things you don't know even when you are just beside the right person to ask.

Be humble, and ask. When you reach out to ask for help, you will surely receive a hand of help.
The one who asks more, knows more.
Ask in the correct way.
Never fear of what will others think of you when you ask.
Besides, most people really feel honoured when they are being asked for help, guidance, extra knowledge, or just plainly some simple questions. You are giving them an opportunity to share more.
Rarely people will feel annoyed, unless you really don't know the Art of Asking.

So by asking, we are not just helping ourselves, but also helping the other to feel happier of having the privilege that someone values his or her views! :)

Funny comic.
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* Thanks for reading my blog! *

This is a post dedicated to all my friends out there, no matter who you are.
I realised quite many of my friends read my blog but didn't leave comments or anything at the chatbox, hence I didn't know they were here and they actually read it. I didn't have the chance to thank them! So now it is!

I am always so happy when I met up with old friends and they tell me:
"Hey I actually read your blog you know!!!"
I never expected that. I am overjoyed.

I am so happy.

And today I have 2 course mates telling me too that they read my blog.
I was so surprised when they started saying.."There, I read it from your blog!"
Or when I asked how they knew, they said: "I got read your blog ma.."
Oh my, I am so surprised! Thank you so much!!!!

My intention of blogging is to stay connected with people, let them know what am I doing and what am I thinking. But of course I won't reveal everything of my life, people still have their own privacy don't they? I'm not a super talkative person and I don't make my blog too personal like some people does. I don't blog much on too personal stuffs etc. It's just a place for me to share and spread the happiness, or to wade off frustration in life. I blog so that they are updated with how I am now. It's nice so when we have meet up and I don't have to talk from all over the start! :) It's even nice to let people I hardly contact with (those at overseas, those who are busy) know how am I doing. It's convenient for me a busy person to update my stuffs for those who are at other places, like my oversea friends and family! Or perhaps also my friends here but who's not doing activities with me! ^^

and I realised...I'm not a famous blogger in the blogosphere, but I'm quite a popular blogger among people I know and people who knows me! ^^
I'm thankful that I have my best friends reading.
I have my close friends reading.
I have my coursemates reading.
I have my Aiesec pals reading.
I have friends whom I don't really catch up with reading.
I have my cousins reading.
And sometimes even my Uncle reading.
Best of all, I have my family reading also!

It's always great to have them coming up to me and talk to me about what I wrote. :) And it's nice that you know who your readers are personally.

To all of you, thanks for reading my blog!

To those whom I don't personally know you, various bloggers from the blogosphere, thanks still for visiting and dropping me comments or messages! ^^

Blogging is like Nokia - Connecting People.

* My Pick n' Brew! *

Finally! I get to taste .......Pick n' Brew! Been hearing many bloggers and floggers talking about it yet I didn't have the chance. But chance and opportunities always come to you unexpectedly! Yes! How so? I was doing CNY shopping with Bran and then walk past and decided to enter! ^^ Since it's dinner time. :P I didn't know 1 Utama has Pick n' Brew! I'm such a...rusa from the jungle. :P

Pick n' Brew at 1 utama link to the hotel.

My lasagna and ice lemon tea. I am a die hard fan of Mr. Lasagna.

Bran's Latte!

He said the Latte is nice and taste better and cheaper than Starbuck's!!!

My lasagna is Very cheesey! It taste great! Better than Secret Recipe's and Friday's!
But The Cave's Lasagna is even better!
Probably it's because they added - WINE!

See?

Bran's one was something unfamiliar to me. I even forgot the name. Oops.

But it has cream sauce, mince beef, and also "Ai gua"

The food tasted very delicious la. Once in a while to have dinner there is great.

We actually spotted a family of..5 or 6? With their kids wearing uniforms and was having dinner!

Wow, if normal usual for dinner at Pick n' Brew, that family must be rich!

Anyway, I am happy I finally went there! So I shall hunt for the next restaurant in my list!

The "pai kia"

The beauty at the entrance! :P

When's your turn for Pick n' Brew?
* I think this picture is great! Good composition! It's like those banners or posters for those talk show hosts!! Good snap dear! :)*

I'm late, but at least I was there.

* This is good *

James 1:19-20

A verse which spoke to me and I'm glad that I'm practising it and getting better. ^^